Betrothal Set 过大礼

BetrothalGuo Da Li 过大礼, is the formalities performed by the groom to bind both families together, and to shows the sincerity of the Groom to the Bride’s family.

The groom together with his good friend / friends will present the “Pin Jin” 聘金 and the pre-discussed gifts to the bride’s family to acknowledge the parents' efforts in raising the bride. By accepting the betrothal gifts, the bride's family pledged her to the groom. This is usually done 2 - 3 weeks before the actual wedding day.


Consensus decision making of the two families is far more important than being calculative and overly superstitious of certain wedding procedure or customs not being practiced.


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